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The last one is always the most controversial but was a game changer for me.

After leaving my corporate job to stay at home with my daughter, then having a baby at the beginning of a pandemic I struggled to find me in all of it. And after posting my outfits here and over on Instagram for the last year I know I’m not the only one.

Focusing on getting dressed, even with nowhere to go, is what brought me back to life. But it wasn’t without challenges and learnings. Once I started really tuning into how I wanted to feel, I learned a lot about myself and had to move forward from some old habits that were no longer serving me.

So here are the 5 things I stopped doing...and what I now do instead. 

We got this!

xo, Claire

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I Stopped Criticizing Myself In The Mirror…

Everyone has an insecurity and instead of focusing on mine I look myself in the eye and say, I love you. Over and over again.

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I Stopped Caring If Other People Will Like My Outfit

and instead focused on how I FEEL in it. Do I feel unstoppable or does something feel off? Start tuning in

NAGHEDI MEDIUM TOTE BAG old colorway : VARLEY SLIM CUFF PANT in ivory mall, wearing a small, 25′ length: KULE LONG SLEEVE TEE : KREWE DAKOTA SUNGLASSES old colorway

I Stopped Holding Onto Clothes That No Longer Served Me

If it didn’t fit my body, had negative energy, or didn’t fit into my lifestyle now ~ I either sold, donated it, or put it in storage…and my closet immediately felt more like the real me.

SANDALS true to size : BAG : DRESS wearing a 4 : NECKLACE 20% off this week : MERIT FLUSH BALM on lips in color LeBonBon

I Stopped Saving Clothes For Later

Even if it’s just am average Wednesday I have more energy, creativity & patience with my kids when I’m dressed for the day.

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I Stopped Defaulting To Wearing Black

I know this one is controversial and many people feel incredible in black, but it started to feel heavy on me. I swapped it for navy, chocolate brown, burgundy or dark greens and felt lighter and happier.